{"id":919,"date":"2023-05-04T15:10:01","date_gmt":"2023-05-04T13:10:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psyleg.com\/?p=919"},"modified":"2023-05-04T15:10:01","modified_gmt":"2023-05-04T13:10:01","slug":"isnotayes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psyleg.com\/?p=919","title":{"rendered":"#isNOTaYES"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00ab\u00a0It\u2019s a dress, not a yes\u00a0\u00bb, tout comme en son temps \u00ab\u00a0l\u2019habit ne fait pas le moine\u00a0\u00bb avaient suscit\u00e9 une forte adh\u00e9sion\u2026 Ma consultation m\u2019am\u00e8ne \u00e0 penser que de nombreux gar\u00e7ons &#8211; jeunes hommes et moins agiles &#8211; ont cependant toujours grand mal \u00e0 d\u00e9coder l\u2019infralangage et le paraverbal qui r\u00e9gissent l\u2019intercommunication, et notamment en termes de sexualit\u00e9, bien au del\u00e0 de la simple mani\u00e8re de s\u2019habiller\u2026<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Quand je souligne mes yeux d\u2019un trait de noir\u00a0\u00bb #isNOTaYES<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Quand je te souris\u00a0\u00bb #isNOTaYES<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Quand je te propose d\u2019aller prendre un caf\u00e9\u00a0\u00bb #isNOTaYES<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Quand je mets un pantalon moulant\u00a0\u00bb #isNOTaYES<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Quand j\u2019accepte d\u2019aller me mettre un peu \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cart pour discuter tranquillement dans un parc\u00a0\u00bb #isNOTaYES<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Quand je ris \u00e0 une de tes blagues\u00a0\u00bb #isNOTaYES<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Quand j\u2019autorise ta main \u00e0 effleurer mon \u00e9paule\u00a0\u00bb #isNOTaYES<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Quand je balance ma t\u00eate en arri\u00e8re pendant qu\u2019on discute\u00a0\u00bb #isNOTaYES<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Quand je d\u00e9croise mes jambes &#8211; pour les soulager ou les positionner dans l\u2019autre sens\u00a0\u00bb #isNOTaYES<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Quand je veux bien aller faire un tour avec toi en voiture\u00a0\u00bb #isNOTaYES<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Quand j\u2019appr\u00e9cie la proposition de regarder un film ensemble, comme des amis\u00a0\u00bb #isNOTaYES<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Quand je me tr\u00e9mousse sur la piste de danse\u00a0\u00bb #isNOTaYES<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Faisons tourner, pour que les uns puissent le lire (et l\u2019assimiler) et les autres le dire (et l\u2019assurer) !!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00ab\u00a0It\u2019s a dress, not a yes\u00a0\u00bb, tout comme en son temps \u00ab\u00a0l\u2019habit ne fait pas le moine\u00a0\u00bb avaient suscit\u00e9 une forte adh\u00e9sion\u2026 Ma consultation m\u2019am\u00e8ne \u00e0 penser que de nombreux gar\u00e7ons &#8211; jeunes hommes et moins agiles &#8211; ont cependant toujours grand mal \u00e0 d\u00e9coder l\u2019infralangage et le paraverbal qui r\u00e9gissent l\u2019intercommunication, et notamment en\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":910,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-919","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-non-classe"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/psyleg.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/iStock-185224700.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/psyleg.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/919","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/psyleg.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/psyleg.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psyleg.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psyleg.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=919"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/psyleg.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/919\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":920,"href":"https:\/\/psyleg.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/919\/revisions\/920"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psyleg.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/910"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/psyleg.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=919"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psyleg.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=919"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psyleg.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=919"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}